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  How to Change Your State of Mind and Attract A Great Man. He May Be The Man Of Your Dreams.

This a series of articles about attracting great men and your self-esteem.

Make sure you read Part 1, Wooing a Man and Your Self-Esteem first Click Here.

Click Here. Part 2, Things and Actions That Can Stop You From Attracting and Keeping a Good Man. 

  You can choose your mood and attract the man you want. Flirting can make you feel good and you do need to feel good to be a great flirt.  Does that sound circular? It is.

  This is a story about Kelly and how she was able to change her thoughts that changed her day.

  "Damn rain,"  Kelly muttered as she stared out of her bedroom window. Her hangover seemed to match the day. Coffee will make me feel better, she thought. She heaved herself out of bed, put on her sloppy sweatshirt and went to the refrigerator.

  "Damn," she said when she saw she was out of coffee. "Why does this have to happen to me? The last thing I feel like doing is going out." But then, as she looked through the kitchen window, she said to herself, "it's only rain after all, and I sure need a coffee." She knew she could either sulk around at home all day or just accept the rain and walk to the coffee shop. She made a quick decision. She pulled on her jeans and sneakers and got her coat and umbrella from the closet.

  It was better outside than she had imagined. The air was fresh with the scent of wet gardens and the rain made music on the leaves. The cafe was busy when she arrived but there was a table by the door. She claimed it with her coat and umbrella and went to the counter.

  "A skinny latte please," she said to the good-looking guy taking the orders. He smiled and repeated the order to the girl operating the coffee machine. He said to Kelly, "Isn't this a perfect day to sit reading the papers, sipping coffee?" Yes, I guess it is," she relied, "once you accept the weather and just get out of the house."

  Kelly took her latte back to the table. The coffee smelt great, and tasted even better. The cheerful sound of chatting filled the cafe. When she thought about what the guy at the counter had said, her mood shifted. She realized that she appreciated days like this. She had time to herself and the weather couldn't dampen her mood, unless she let it. She was doing what she enjoyed.

  Kelly's story illustrates how we can change our mood, attitude or state of mind. How we think and feel depends upon what we focus on. Do you have your mood or does your mood have you?

  You always have a state of mind or attitude - the question is, is your attitude attractive or is it more likely to be a turn-off for any man you come into contact with? You can choose your attitude because you can choose your thoughts, and you might as well choose a good attitude because it will affect the quality of your day, life and relationships.

  Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques for Assessing, Improving, and Maintaining Your Self-Esteem. Click Here.

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