Body Language + Tone of Voice + Words = Total Communication

Remember that these nonverbal softening gestures alone do not replace verbal communication. Moreover, if you only see an isolated gesture, rather than cluster of gestures, your perception of the other person's receptivity may be incorrect. However, when you look for and use clusters of these softening gestures together with a friendly tone of voice and inviting words, you will create an impression of openness and availability for contact and conversation.

With practice and a greater awareness of body language, you will be able to send and receive receptive signals, and encourage others to approach you and feel comfortable. Begin to notice other people's body language as well as your own. This will help you to identify softening techniques and recognize levels of receptivity in others, thus minimizing the chance of being rejected.  Look for people who display receptive body language and project receptive body language by using softening techniques - they really work!!

Your body language speaks before you do. Research has shown that over 70% of face-to-face conversation is based on body language. The remaining 20% is tone of voice leaving only 10% to words. Along with the tone of your voice and the words you use, they add up to "total communication."

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