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How to Get Noticed by a Man, Making a Good First Impression and Getting that Man.
It's
better to be looked over than overlooked.
Mae West
So why do you need
to get noticed?
If you can get someone to notice you, more than 50 percent of the
work is done. To be noticed you only need to capture someone's attention
for a few seconds. Once they become aware of you, it's up to you to take
some steps to be sure you make a good impression.
Jan was applying for a job at an advertising agency. The job was in the mailroom, but Jan knew this was where she had to start if she wanted a career in advertising. The agency advertised this position at the same time each year. Their policy was to either promote or terminate the mailroom staff at the end of a year at the job, depending on the employees' performance.
Jan knew she would be one of hundreds of applicants and she wanted to be noticed so she needed to set herself apart from all the others. She spent a week on her application and, with the help of a graphic artist, came up with a professionally styled and presented application in the form of an advertisement about herself, telling the agency what the advantages of employing her would be. She got an interview first and then the job, and had moved on from the mailroom within six months of joining the agency. From day one the management had her tagged as someone special.
Posture
We
mentioned Charlie Brown's sad posture. When you enter a social situation
do you move and stand in a confident way or do you have a sad posture?
Do you look as though you are enjoying yourself, ready to have fun, or
does your posture scream shyness or stress? How you think affects your
posture and your posture affects how you think. The mind and body are
inextricably linked.
When we are coaching or doing our workshops we have a lot of fun playing around with posture. Remember the mood accessing exercise? You can use this to feel playful, confident, alive and flirtatious. Just by thinking the thoughts and remembering how it feels you can be confident, elegant and playful, and you can go for it. And if you can't remember ever feeling like this, imagine what it would be like while you adapt the posture of these emotions.
The secret to getting noticed is to carry yourself in such a way that people notice how you move. Do you remember seeing someone move through a room looking cool? How did it feel to watch them? What were your impressions? Now think about someone lumbering through that same space awkwardly. Sense the difference you feel as an observer.
Ever notice how some people just seem to know how to sit comfortably and appear calm and composed when doing so? Compare this with the person who sits looking like a sack of potatoes thrown into a corner. Again, the difference between these people is in their posture. It's a fact that we make judgments about people and they make judgments about us in a split second. Don't underestimate how important your posture is to your success in relationships.
Good posture is about getting your mind connected with your body so you notice how you feel. Yoga and Pilates classes are great for getting connected to your body and mind in this way. They are also very "in" at the moment, so there'll be plenty of opportunities for you to meet people and practice your flirting at the same time.
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