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Dating Advice
Six Low Ways to Win a Woman
To attract the fairer sex, it helps to be a little unfair. Here are some tactics you never heard from us.
1. Be a night owl. If you're going to a bar, show up late and stay until last call. As the night wears on, magically, you get better looking. In a study of singles-bar patrons, as closing time neared, women's judgments of men's attractiveness decreased, as did the men's toward women--even after controlling for the effect of alcohol. The reason: a psychological mechanism sensitive to shrinking opportunities. As the mating pool thins, what's left looks better and better.
2. Compliment the competition. Let's say you and Maurice have eyes for Tina. Your first impulse might be to try to convince Tina what a huge dope Maurice is. But do that and you send Tina a cue that Maurice must be worthy competition if you have to bash him. Instead, pay Maurice a compliment. A backhanded one. It's a subtle way to demonstrate his inferior status, says David M. Buss, Ph.D., University of Michigan professor of psychology.
Compliment...........................................................What it means
"That Maurice, what a
nice guy, a real teddy
bear."........................................He's a wimp.
"I really admire how Maurice is
happy where he's at, not making
a lot of
money."..........................................................He's
going nowhere.
"Maurice is such a great guy.
I guess that's why he has
women crawling all over him."......................................He's
a womanizer.
"Maurice is a great worker.
He does everything I ask him."....................................He's a
real wimp.
"I respect how Maurice seems so
unconcerned with appearances.".................................He's a
slob.
3. Get a fake date. If you know a great-looking female friend, by all means show her off. "There are few things more attractive to a woman than the fact that other women are attracted to you." says Buss. In one study, when people were asked to judge men based on photographs of them with "spouses" of differing attractiveness, unattractive men paired with good-looking women were routinely rated most favorably in terms of status.
4.
Analyze her romance quotient. One study suggests that a
gaze, when aimed at the right woman, can do wonders. Researchers
found that highly romantic women are vulnerable to long, thoughtful
gazes. Unromantic lasses, though, don't budge. So the key is
to measure a woman's romantic quotient quickly.
Early on, bring up a recent romantic flick. Then
broaden the topic to love in general. Ask her about her definition
of love, whether or not love conquers all or if love at first sight
really exists. (Researchers used these questions to define
romantic.) If her answers drip like a Harlequin romance, let the gazing
begin. If she comes off cold, then tell her how much you hated
Sleepless in Seattle.
5. If all else fails, move.
Consider Washington, D.C. an option. In cities like our nation's
capital, where women far outnumber eligible men, women will often shift
to casual sexual encounters to compete for partners.
Or take Sweden, for example. Because the Swedes
provide day care for children, long paid maternity leaves, and many
other benefits, women are less financially dependent upon men.
With less incentive to marry, maintaining one's virtue prior to marriage
becomes less important. Women, thus, are less choosy about their
sex partners. And we didn't even mention the meatballs!
By Men's Health Magazine
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